This has an obvious downside that if you don’t speak up, then no one will know what you think. They can’t benefit from your wisdom and sadly, you might get dismissed. This can happen in loud aggressive cultures or families where the squeaky wheel gets the grease. If you work in a place that values assertiveness, a quieter and more reflective style will be devalued – you may not be seen as a leader within the organization, running the risk of being passed over for promotions and top jobs.