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Thanks & Gratitude

Being Encouraged

There is nothing quite like being encouraged by someone to turn a bad day around.

I remember a few weeks ago when I was having a particularly hard day as a parent. My kids just were off and it had turned me into a ball of emotions. I couldn’t decide if I was angry, frustrated, or ready to go have a good cry.

Sometime that afternoon my dad came over for a quick visit. He could tell that I was having one of those days so he asked me what was happening. I began to tell him how discouraged I was feeling and how I just felt like all my efforts as a parent were coming back void.

My dad listened and acknowledged how I was feeling and then proceeded to encourage me. He reminded me about how much progress we had been making in certain areas with the kids. His words of encouragement were exactly what I needed to hear that day. They gave me the spring in my step that I needed to carry on instead of stay stuck feeling defeated.

I can remember other times in my life where I felt very discouraged and someone came in at precisely the right time to encourage me - it’s a very special thing.

I try my best to be a source of encouragement for the people in my life too, because I know how important it is to be encouraged! Life can be tough, and a kind, encouraging word can absolutely turn someone’s day (or even life!) around for the better.

Recommended Book

“Never Give Up”

Dec 28, 2017
ISBN: 9781532029851

Interesting Fact #1

September 12 recognizes the National Day of Encouragement each year.

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Interesting Fact #2

Encouragement provides awareness. When we encourage people, we let them know what we think – and that they matter to us. Encouragement doesn’t have to mean that everything is perfect, or that there isn’t room for growth and improvement. But it does show that there is a foundation to build from. When we provide encouragement to others, they are more aware of the perceptions of others and this helps them understand their world and situation better.

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Interesting Fact #3

Encouragement creates belief. When we know that others believe in us, it changes everything. This doesn’t always happen, especially as a coach in a work setting – not because the coach doesn’t believe, but because the belief goes unsaid for any number of reasons. When we encourage people, we are letting them know we see what they have done, and by extension, believe what they will be able to do in the future; and that improves their belief in themselves and their potential.

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Quote of the day

“We can't be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean, a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don't have something better.” ― C. JoyBell C.

Article of the day - 7 Things You Can Do to Thrive in 2026

Key points

  • Thriving in 2026 won’t be about working harder or faster; it will be about staying grounded.
  • Small daily actions build capacities like courage and optimism—skills you develop, not fixed traits.
  • In an age optimized for speed and AI replication, depth and authenticity become most irreplaceable assets.

Floating sky lanterns in Loy Krathong festival, Chiang Mai,Thailand

Floating sky lanterns in Loy Krathong festival, Chiang Mai,Thailand

Source: toa555/Adobe Stock

As we approach 2026, the pace of change that has become so familiar over the last few years shows no signs of slowing. AI continues its rapid advance, uncertainty seems to be the only constant, and many of us feel stretched thin trying to keep up. How can we navigate this shifting landscape while staying grounded, purposeful, and whole?

Over the past year, I’ve explored various dimensions of this challenge, from the psychology of courage to the neuroscience of slow thinking. From my own journey, and from researching and writing about these issues, one insight keeps resurfacing: thriving in 2026 won’t come from working harder or moving faster. Rather, what will matter is cultivating specific practices that protect your humanity, sharpen your thinking, and help you remain present even as the world accelerates around you.

Here are seven things you can do right now to prepare yourself for what’s ahead.

Build Your Courage Muscle

Courage isn’t a trait you either have or lack. It’s a capacity you develop through practice. And just as lifting weights builds physical strength, taking small brave actions builds your courage muscle. The key is recognizing that you don’t need to face down your biggest fear today; you just need to take the next step in front of you.

And remember: You don’t need to feel brave to act bravely. The feeling follows the action, not the other way around.

Give Your Best Ideas Time to Simmer

Our brains need time to make unexpected connections and develop genuine insight—but this happens only when we give our minds space to wander.

Neuroscience research shows that the brain’s default mode network, which activates during rest, is essential for creativity and deep understanding. When we’re constantly consuming and producing, we get output without depth.

  • Try keeping an “idea crockpot”, a place where you write down important questions and let them simmer without immediately trying to solve them.
  • Protect time for walks or other activities that keep your hands busy and your mind free.
  • Practice saying “I’m still thinking about that” when someone asks for your opinion on something important.

Deep thinking can’t be rushed.

Practice Single-Tasking to Reclaim Your Attention

Despite what we tell ourselves, multitasking doesn’t make us more efficient; it makes us worse at everything we’re trying to do. Research consistently shows that attempting to handle multiple tasks simultaneously significantly reduces our cognitive performance.

The practice of “slow attention”—focusing fully on one task at a time—isn’t just more productive. It’s also more humane. When we race through our days trying to do everything at once, we lose our connection to ourselves.

  • Choose one task and give it your full focus.
  • Take five minutes daily to breathe deeply.
  • Mute non-essential notifications and protect screen-free time.

Remember: slower is often smoother, and smooth is ultimately faster. Slow down to speed up.

Embrace Your Contradictions as Creative Fuel

Are you analytical or intuitive? Ambitious or content? Traditional or disruptive?

Why not both? What if, instead of trying to resolve such tensions you embraced them?

Research on highly creative individuals reveals that the most original thinkers aren’t those who have eliminated their contradictions but those who have learned to inhabit them fully. Creative people contain multitudes; they’re simultaneously humble and confident, playful and disciplined, solitary and collaborative.

In an age in which AI can replicate patterns and optimize processes, your contradictions are precisely what make you irreplaceable. Keep a list of your own paradoxical qualities. When you feel pulled in opposite directions, resist the urge to choose sides. Instead, explore the tension. It's part of the beautiful mess of being human.

Protect Your Digital Identity and Agency

As AI becomes more sophisticated at replicating voices, faces, and behavioral patterns, a new form of identity theft is emerging, one that steals not your credit card number but your very persona.

This isn’t just a privacy issue; it’s a psychological one. When a digital version of you acts independently, it threatens your sense of self and agency. After all, identity is the story we tell ourselves about who we are, and that story requires that we maintain some control over how we’re represented.

  • Be thoughtful about what you share online.
  • Understand your rights regarding digital likeness.
  • Advocate for stronger legal protections.

In a world in which machines can replicate your image and voice, what remains truly yours is your intentionality and your authentic presence.

Nevertheless, here's what to do when a machine steals your self.

Reconnect with Why Your Work Matters

Only two in ten employees globally feel engaged at work. That means most people spend the majority of their waking hours intellectually and emotionally disconnected from what they’re doing.

When work loses its soul, we limp through our days feeling adrift. But when we reconnect with purpose—with why what we do matters— everything shifts. Health improves, resilience increases, and we rediscover pride in our contributions.

  • Investigate your own relationship with work.
  • Learn what genuinely motivates you.
  • Look for the real impact your work has on others.
  • Find the aspects that align with your values.

As the Stoic philosophers taught 2,000 years ago, you can’t always change what you do, but you can often change how you relate to it.

Here's why work feels empty and how to reignite purpose.

Choose Optimism as a Daily Practice

Optimism isn’t naive positivity or the denial of difficulty. It’s a quiet, daily practice of staying present and holding onto possibility even when the future feels unclear.

Cultivating optimism begins with acceptance rather than avoidance. We need to feel what is true before we can move forward from it. Then we anchor ourselves through purpose, stay close to what grounds us through simple rituals, and let others walk beside us rather than becoming isolated in our pain.

  • Begin each day with one grounding practice, however small.
  • Connect your daily actions to a larger purpose.
  • Trust that meaning can emerge from difficulty if you remain open to finding it.

Remaining Human

2026 will bring technological acceleration, ongoing uncertainty, and pressures to move faster and produce more. But you need practices that will help you stay grounded when everything feels unmoored, that protect your capacity for depth in a world optimized for speed, and that preserve your humanity in an age of thinking machines.

These seven practices offer exactly that. They won’t eliminate the challenges ahead, but they will help you meet them with more presence, more purpose, and more of yourself intact. They are all expressions of the same fundamental commitment: the choice to remain fully human in an age that often asks us to be less than that.

Question of the day - When is a time that you received a word of encouragement that changed your life?

Thanks & Gratitude

When is a time that you received a word of encouragement that changed your life?