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Mastery Mondays

Employment & Career

Mid Life Crisis Decisions

I’ll be the first to admit that I am having a minor mid-life crisis. I am coming up on 40 and am questioning many things about my life.

At this stage, I am questioning my employment decisions up until this point and wondering if I should be making some changes going forward. I’ve been a stay at home parent for many years already and am at the point where I’m thinking about re-entering the workforce.

The trouble is that I do not want to go back to my old career. 

I’ve always been the type of person to be wanting to move to the next thing. I wouldn’t exactly give myself points for contentment. After high school, I went to university and did a business degree with a major in human resources. I worked in that field for awhile and decided I did not like it - too much sitting at a desk and I’m a busy body. 

That led me to hair school - I love working with people, I wanted to own my own business, and it’s a busy, on-your-feet type of job. So I did that for awhile and circumstances changed and I was onto the next thing.

I owned a coffee shop for awhile which was so much fun but so much work! That was a great time in my life too and a time where I learned a ton about myself. After that, I dove into the world of digital marketing and online coaching. My mom and I did that together and we did quite well with that. We wrapped that up shortly after I had my second child and I’ve been home ever since.

I’ve done a lot of things that I’ve enjoyed, but still don’t feel like I’ve truly found “where I fit.” So in my mid-life stage, I’m questioning it all and wondering what will come next. As I continue to age, I’m learning to realize that maybe the journey is more of the focus that the outcome…so I’m trying to enjoy this stage of planning the next thing!

Recommended Movie

The Pursuit of Happyness

Will Smith, Thandiwe Newton
2006

Interesting Fact #1

While it’s wonderful to feel enthusiastic about the job you perform every day, what brings the greatest satisfaction at age 22 might not hold much meaning at age 30--or when you have children, want more time for yourself, or have done the same thing for 10 years. The best sign of a good fit is that you believe what you are doing is important. For some people, simply seeing that a task is completed at the end of the day might be most important. For others, knowing that they are providing a valuable service is what matters. For still others, being challenged every day and being able to tap into their creativity is what they will value.

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Interesting Fact #2

Not every student who wants to be a doctor can successfully pass anatomy. Not every aspiring engineer can understand calculus. A student who plans to be a veterinarian might discover she’s allergic to animal dander, and the job is simply not a possibility. A successful and satisfying career requires that a student’s interests and abilities align. Working with a career adviser, students can explore opportunities for careers that match up with their talents and interests.

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Interesting Fact #3

Even the best paying jobs can be hard to bear if you don’t enjoy what you’re doing or if you’re unhappy in the atmosphere where you spend eight hours a day. You do need enough money to pay the bills and have a lifestyle you enjoy, but a higher salary is not worth it if you wake up dreading your day and then spend eight hours being miserable.

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Quote of the day

“I felt rising frustration and resentment. I was frustrated because I felt stuck, and I was resentful because I was stuck in an industry that was chipping away at so many things I cared about.” ― Anna Wiener

Article of the day - 5 Strategies for Making Career Decisions

Are you facing major life changes? Perhaps you’ve just finished school. Maybe you’re thinking about moving to a new job or a new location. Perhaps your youngest child is preparing to leave home. If you’ve reached a milestone in your life, you may be wondering “What’s next?”

Over the course of your career, you will make a few big decisions and many small ones. Seizing opportunities as they arise—and sometimes creating them—is a regular part of career planning. This can be stressful, but certain strategies can reduce the pressure. They can also increase your confidence in your ability to make good choices.

The first and most important strategy is to remember this one thing: You have the power to change your own life. At work, at home, or in any part of your life, if you’re not happy with your role or environment, you can change it. Even if you make a choice that doesn’t work out the way you hoped, you can learn from it. And that can help you make a better choice next time.

When you look at things that way, you realize there aren’t any wrong choices—only opportunities. Use the rest of these strategies to help you make the right choice for you, whether you’re taking an opportunity that’s come your way or making one of your own.

1. Think sample

That’s not a typo. “Think simple” can be good advice, too, but this strategy is to “think sample.”

What does that mean? Well, there are thousands of occupations in Canada. Even the best labour market information can only provide samples of the many types of work you can do. There are too many options for any source to include them all. And those options grow in number and change in nature every day.

The best way to explore an occupation is to talk to people in that field. They can tell you about related roles, opportunities in adjacent sectors, and emerging options. They can share information you might not find anywhere else.

2. Think sector

Work roles change every day, but sectors remain quite constant. For example, the entertainment sector has been around for a long time. However, many occupations within it are different today than they were even a decade ago. The same is true of sectors such as tourism, oil and gas, computing, telecommunications, and health.

When you’re exploring options, try to focus on sectors rather than specific occupations. Get a feel for sectors that interest you. If you’re considering nursing school, explore the whole health care sector. If want to be a rock star, think about anything in the entertainment sector. Looking at becoming a forklift operator? Think logistics, a huge sector that includes most things to do with moving goods from producers to consumers.

When you think of sectors rather than occupations, your options expand instantly and almost endlessly.

3. Think pathway

The world of work is changing all the time, and any job you choose will likely change in multiple ways during your career. Instead of looking at any one work option as an end point, think of it as a single step on a career pathway.

When you take this longer view, things like status and salary become less important. What’s more important is where the work can lead you. Ask yourself these questions about options that interest you:

  • Will this option lead me to a sector or field that interests me? Many roles provide entry points into a sector. Say you’re interested in tourism. Bussing tables in a family restaurant might not sound appealing. But what if it leads to serving, and that leads to a fine dining restaurant? What if that leads to becoming a maitre d’hotel, and then to managing a restaurant? What if that finally leads to entrepreneurship and the opportunity to start your own restaurant in a popular tourist hotspot? If you start with the end in mind, bussing tables might be a great first step to reaching your larger career goals.
  • Will this option help me learn about other interesting work? Sometimes you take work because you need money. That’s okay, but the job you take will be more valuable if you use it to explore other kinds of work. For example, doing service work like bartendingselling sportswearserving tablesfilling vending machines, or driving a delivery truck can provide opportunities to talk to a variety of people about the work they do and the sector or field they work in. If you need a job because you need money now, try to pick work that offers ways to explore your options at the same time.
  • Will a job in one sector be a bridge to a sector I’m more interested in? You can’t always get what you want right away. Say you’re interested in communications, but there are no openings in your community. Go to OCCinfo and use the “Industries” filter to search for a related occupation in a different sector that is available in your community. For example, a job as a dispatcher or communication technician could be your bridge for a later move into the communications sector.

4. Think action

Worried about making the perfect choice? Not going to make a move until you know you’ve made the right decision? Beware of analysis paralysis—often any decision will better than none at all. Accept that there are many right answers but no perfect option. Every role will have upsides and downsides. The big questions are “Do the upsides of this role outweigh the downsides?” and “Does this role lead to more upsides in the future?”

Choosing options requires taking action. It also requires taking some risk. Risk can often feel scary. It can help to remember that, although you can’t eliminate risk, you can manage it by ensuring that the benefits are likely to outweigh the risks. And you can almost always change your mind or make a new and different choice in the future.

5. Think flexible and focused

When you’re flexible, you explore the world of work for options that look interesting. You take your time, go here and there, talk to people, browse online, read or watch the news, and see if anything interesting pops up.

While it’s important to be flexible, you always need to be ready to focus—to jump at an opportunity when one arises. This might mean volunteering so that you can learn more about a specific workplace. Or it might mean going all out to meet an application deadline for a program that has the best reputation.

Find your answers to the question “What’s next?”

Choosing career options can be challenging. But if you follow these 5 strategies, “What’s next?” can be a welcome and exciting question every time it comes up. In the process, you’ll realize that exploring and choosing options can lead to new opportunities you may not have thought of. It can also give you a much clearer sense of where you’re going as you choose the next direction on your career path.

Question of the day - What is one career decision you’ve really regretted?

Employment & Career

What is one career decision you’ve really regretted?